lots to discuss!!
carpc joycon: this would allow 'some' steering wheel buttons to work with the car pc. but you need to know your way around the car to use it. for the joycon to work, each button needs to send a different resistance when pressed-- you map that resistance level to a certain feature.
if you car uses any sort of ecu bus, or converts the button presses to a digital signal, the joycon will not work without modifying buttons/
wiring in the car. there is a good chance you could get everything looking stock, ut i would expect it to take a lot of work.
cd changer-, take 2:
you said that you have the cd changer already?
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