Well I fixed my problem
By the way I love the Carnetix 2140!!!!!
What I ended up doing was setting the remote delay on the 2140 through the PSUmoni software to about 30 seconds which gave my computer long enough time to boot up. Then the remote signal is sent to my amp to turn on and voilla!!!! Works like a charm now!
So if anyone else ever has this problem all you have to do is delay the remote trip on long enough to let the sound card boot up with the computer.