To wake up, you switch to Wakeup mode (STCSWM 2). Once the ECU wakes up, you can switch back to Normal mode (STCSWM 3). Sleep mode puts the chip into a low-power state.
For more details, see mode descriptions on page 11 of the datasheet:
http://www.onsemi.com/pub_link/Collateral/NCV7356-D.PDF
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