I think he is saying you came across quite harsh for no reason
I don't think it was for no reason. He's absolutely right. If you need to contact any forum member, your results will be a lot better by emailing them.
There are some users that only read this forum once a week or so. If I needed to contact one of them, email would be the ticket. Granted, all the people I talk to regularly are mp3car junkies like myself who read/post AT LEAST once a day....
This **** is like crack, man.
Have you looked in the FAQ yet?
How about the Wiki?
Under normal circumstances, a signature would go here.