lol, ok i connected the individual wires together, just like i did for the serial cable part. Just the pin 1,2,3 are like a y with a switch. Other than that the power cables go straight through. I realized i blew the fuse because one of my solders was touching the shield and shorting it out.
I spliced the wire between the XM unit and the Pioneer controller.
Basically I just want to know if I am going about this the right way. If one of you could explain it a bit better it would be much appreciated.