Look on ebay, there are tons of panels with switches/relays that would do just what you wanted. As far as a remote I have no idea unless you are running a pc too.
heres a link to one of the these on ebay, this one might be a bit overkill
link 2, link 3
from ebay search for 'switch panel' under automotive parts & acc's.
You could fiberglass any of those in your dash, or buy switches and relays seperate.