If that's what floats your boat, but you've already been asked not to do it in this thread. I'm just saying, as a man, if I have integrity, I don't need to defend myself in childish situations. I simply leave the situation. It's like dealing with kids, if you teach your one child to ignore the other one when their being a pest or rude or mean, then they stop. It's an, um, attention thing. It's a pay attention to me, or if you don't i'm going to be rude thing. I'm not talking to one or the other, but both of you. You're each bashing each other and now instead of acting like adults and men with integrity, you're both acting like children. Not trying to spark another fight or argument, cause frankly it won't happen from my end, but to continue to see/read/hear you two do it, is irritating and I wish you'd stop or a mod would step in. It's childish and neither of you are proving the point you probably set out to prove. Discussion over. I just felt it needed to be said. And if you're needing to "defend yourself", then maybe you should dig a little deeper and search for some more integrity. That probably wasn't called for was it. I guess my delete button doesn't work, sorry! Truth hurts sometimes! BTW, cause I know how hard it is to tell over email or text, but this was not in an angry, mad, or raised voice! Just thought I'd throw it out there! I'd hate for you to feel "attacked"!