Well what do you know. In frustration I cut off all the wires connecting to the board and redid them. And now I got picture! Man, I thought I already lost RM$1000 on this. The controller board doesnt seem to be working anymore though, this is the one where you plug in the ribbon cable. I think it might not be the controller board, but some circuits leading to the ribbon connector on the vga controller board (that connects to the controller board). You can see it in the first page of this thread (where you solder the ground)
I cant use remote or any buttons anymore.. so I soldered the TM701L power button to ground and the point at the end of that capacitor in the pic.
I havent performed this auto power on yet.. i'll play with my relief that my lilliput is still working for a month or so and wait a while before I perform another mod.