RoyN, I understand what you are saying. I know I may have come off a little harsh and some of my comments are just hot air, its just that I've gotten really annoyed and mad with this problem. The fact that I'm addicted with this site doesn't help either. I know there are not a lot of people haveing the problem, but I do know some that are. I can't say that the problem is with there server, but I do know that the problem is not with my connection.
The think that ticks me the most is that I only have the problem with this site and none other. and the problem in on a constant basis. Also the fact that my connection is always blamed for the problems gets to me also, knowing that I have like the best ISP in the USA.