that's it...we're done! we talked tonight and we are getting a divorce. we finally had some truths between us regarding this. we both know and knew that it was over for at least a year. we boiled it down to the simple fact that we just grew apart. the best part about it is that we both feel relieved. everything went so well that she's going to hook me up with one of her friends that i think is hot. i laughed when she said that because we live in a small town and it's going to look like some jerry springer ****.
it came down to us realizing that we are better friends than we are husband and wife. that also makes us better parents in that we don't want to and won't drag our kids through the ringer. i feel so much better and so does she.