Thread: the wife and i had 'the talk'

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See ya should have gotten a cage

Originally Posted by muldrick

Don't do it man! Divorce is not an option! (Unless someone's cheatin')

I didn't ask for this it was heaped on me. That being said I would never hold her back from true happiness. If that means that it's with someone else then so be it. Life goes on and the girl who cut my hair is hot. There's no cheating involved. I asked she said no. I believe her to a large degree.

Originally Posted by truckingmp3

Good luck! keep a level head.

I have and I will. I told her we aren't husband and wife and I can't say that we are even friends, but we are parents. We have to be adults about this.

Originally Posted by jjh221

See ya should have gotten a cage

I'll make a mental note of that..lol.

Originally Posted by lgbr

Stay together for the kids! Living without my dad is really annoying.

I never left. She did. This wasn't my choice. I think we can make it work not being married.

Originally Posted by DarquePervert

And I suppose that living with two parents that hate each other would be an altogether better situation?

Originally Posted by hijinks21

most of the time its for the better.. living in a bad relationship has the same effect as drinking and smoking all day long due to the stress. It sucks but its part of life

Exactly. I don't hate my wife but I don't trust her anymore either. When we talked I said to not ever bad mouth me in front of the kids and I would do the same. She said, 'I would never do that.' I told her it's worth saying because I also thought that you would never leave. As nice as it would be to stay together the damage may be done. I don't think I could take her back. I asked her if she could see herself without me and she said yes. What more do I need to know? At that point everything else is irrelevant. I know what I need to know and my life goes on.