A girl calling you a good friend. What does that mean?

**jjh221** · 05-28-2005, 09:28 PM

stupid girls dont want anything they can have. They want something they can desire or try to obtain.

**Pudge** · 05-29-2005, 12:44 AM

That's right to an extent, but in my experience they also like really sweet guys, not needy or clingy, just guys who make them feel special.

edit:: of course it helps more if she can't have you.

**Curiosity** · 05-29-2005, 04:18 AM

Oh yes! That's probably the most important advice for the "just friends" type. How you value your time. Needy is annoying and worth very little, while someone who prioritizes other more important things above her becomes needed, or more valuable. What you resist persists.

**NiN^_^NiN** · 05-29-2005, 08:07 AM

Im currently in the im a friend kinda thing she says im great and hugs me and gives me kisses ont he cheek then i get the cold shoulder and of course she found someone or ****ed him and im like yeah whatever then of course after bout 2 weeks she is all nice and tries to get me back as her security blanket.

Now I think most guys aren't naive about this but they think there might be a chance so they let them treat them that way.

I've grown smart and she has done it to me once but lately she said hi to me on the net and i said hi then totally just gave her 1 word answers and said i gtg meeting some one.

What do you know she's all of a sudden sms me asking what im doing talking bout a **** load of crap.

Now i know if i let her in she will do it again but i also know if i say i got someone then she will try to **** me then use the excuse you cheated on her with me so i can't go out with you cause you might do it to me.

Now as good as a **** sounds im not gonna bother and she can try all she wants to manipulate me but im not gonna budge so she's gonna be in for it very soon.

On another note about this i got a hot friend who is nice and we worked out that im we won't even try which is nice cause i don't have the feeling id liek to be with her.

But she is damn good she takes me out and dances and **** with me and of course she does this so the girls around see im with this hot chick and they want me (it's stupid cause girls have admitted that they won't care bout the guy cause if this hot girl has him she has to have him).

So she does this to help me test a few theorys we talked about how screwed up the male and female sex crap really is.

And of course you can guess i got quite a few girls try to pull me away.

Now the interesting thing is when you say im her friend then they basiclly won't have a go of u.

if you say your with her they will try to jump u then won't want to be with u cause u cheated.

But this one i found very interesting

if you say that YOU broke it off with her and she wanted to hang out with you still you get the girl wanting to have u and is wondering why i would break up with this hot girl so they go WAY overboard with affection and gifts etc.

It's funny how they react and it's a blast talking with the oppisate sex about these things.

But i'll shutup now cause i've typed alot

**jjh221** · 05-29-2005, 08:42 AM

next time whip it out and smack her in the face with it then leave.

**mp3hombre** · 05-29-2005, 12:15 PM

When a chick calls you a "friend" she means "you ain't getting any from me, you wuzz!"
Move on.

**Chris31** · 05-29-2005, 12:36 PM

Originally Posted by NiN^_^NiN

Im currently in the im a friend kinda thing she says im great and hugs me and gives me kisses ont he cheek then i get the cold shoulder and of course she found someone or ****ed him and im like yeah whatever then of course after bout 2 weeks she is all nice and tries to get me back as her security blanket.

Now I think most guys aren't naive about this but they think there might be a chance so they let them treat them that way.

I've grown smart and she has done it to me once but lately she said hi to me on the net and i said hi then totally just gave her 1 word answers and said i gtg meeting some one.

What do you know she's all of a sudden sms me asking what im doing talking bout a **** load of crap.

Now i know if i let her in she will do it again but i also know if i say i got someone then she will try to **** me then use the excuse you cheated on her with me so i can't go out with you cause you might do it to me.

Now as good as a **** sounds im not gonna bother and she can try all she wants to manipulate me but im not gonna budge so she's gonna be in for it very soon.

On another note about this i got a hot friend who is nice and we worked out that im we won't even try which is nice cause i don't have the feeling id liek to be with her.

But she is damn good she takes me out and dances and **** with me and of course she does this so the girls around see im with this hot chick and they want me (it's stupid cause girls have admitted that they won't care bout the guy cause if this hot girl has him she has to have him).

So she does this to help me test a few theorys we talked about how screwed up the male and female sex crap really is.

And of course you can guess i got quite a few girls try to pull me away.

Now the interesting thing is when you say im her friend then they basiclly won't have a go of u.

if you say your with her they will try to jump u then won't want to be with u cause u cheated.

But this one i found very interesting

if you say that YOU broke it off with her and she wanted to hang out with you still you get the girl wanting to have u and is wondering why i would break up with this hot girl so they go WAY overboard with affection and gifts etc.

It's funny how they react and it's a blast talking with the oppisate sex about these things.

But i'll shutup now cause i've typed alot

Best not to take much notice of what she does. If she **** you she **** you.

Just use her as a stepping stone to get to know other girls. Maybe she have a hot friend whos interested in you

If my answer doesnt even make sense, maybe I didnt understand anything you wrote

**Chris31** · 05-29-2005, 12:47 PM

Funny though...A work mate was once told me a story when he was a teenager.

Heres it goes...strange one as well.

They are a group of friends. Him (my work mate), a girl, the bro of the girl, a guy who like the girl, and some other guys.

Anyway they are in a train, a near empty one. The guy who liked the girl couldnt make it to the outing...hes the one whos really into her, cared for her and ****.

The girl and her bro went the the end of the carriage, been there for a few mins.

My work mate caught them having sex...the bro said, hey guys come and have a go with my sister. They all did.

After the trip they told the guy who liked the girl what had happened. He was well ****ed off. He was the one who never get any but she **** any guys.

I can understand why hes really ****ed off