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  • Drop her. Kick his ***. Be alone.

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    2 4.17%
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    Quote Originally Posted by EsKALad
    she knows i dont like it. she doesnt really do it anymore. but i guess you can say when i tell her i dont like it shell do it anyway because she feels like im trying to control her. but when i dont say anything about it she doesnt do it. everything is gravy now. btw i picked the 1st one lol.



    You are sorted then.

    I agree you shouldnt let her feel that you are controlling her, that will driver her away or make her do the opposite. But anyway she shouldnt be doing what shes doing, then there wont be any problems at the first place.

    Glad she listened though, cause some girls like to do something wrong and when you tell them its wrong they dont want to hear it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EsKALad
    But i just dont see a point in her having guy friends when she has me
    Am I the only one who sees something wrong with that comment? She's not allowed to have any male friends at all? Thats like her saying your not allowed to be friends with girls beacuse you have her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bob^
    Am I the only one who sees something wrong with that comment? She's not allowed to have any male friends at all? Thats like her saying your not allowed to be friends with girls beacuse you have her.

    YEAH BUT IM NOT LOOKING FOR NEW FEMALE FRIENDS WHEN I HAVE HER. IM TALKING ABOUT GUY FRIENDS SHES MAKING AFTER WE STARTED GOING OUT. ANYTHING BEFORE THAT IS OK WITH ME AND I HAVE NO RIGHT TO SAY ANYTHING.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EsKALad
    YEAH BUT IM NOT LOOKING FOR NEW FEMALE FRIENDS WHEN I HAVE HER. IM TALKING ABOUT GUY FRIENDS SHES MAKING AFTER WE STARTED GOING OUT. ANYTHING BEFORE THAT IS OK WITH ME AND I HAVE NO RIGHT TO SAY ANYTHING.

    Yeah I was about to say that. Its different when the GF is actively looking for a new male friend. Its fine if she knows the guy before I came along.

    Actively looking for a new male friend while shes in a serious relationship is taking the **** in IMO. Likewise I respect my GF and Ill certainly will not go around looking for a new girl. I know what I dont like to be done to me and so I wont do it to the one I love. I know some jerks would

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chris31
    Of course a person can be changed, WTF? Where on earth did you guys hear that a person cant be changed. If you are in a relationship and theres something that you do that really bothers your girl...of course you will try to change for the sake of keeping everything peaceful. Likewise the girl will change for you if she love you enough, she will give up things for you if that what it takes to keep the relationship going. It takes 2 for a relationship to work and theres always some form of compromise for it to work. Change her or just put up with her **** if she cant change for you. Whatever it is as long as both are happy then things should work out.
    All people have deal breakers. Someone might make a temporary change because they love (lust) you. But unless they want to change for themselves, they will revert back to old ways (just give them time). Also, it usually gets thrown up during fights and gets held against the other person(s). It is always best to not force someone to change. Either accept the issue (and never bring it back up) or end the relationship.
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    **** her out. you do not have to share her **** with anybody, even not virtually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ODYSSEY
    All people have deal breakers. Someone might make a temporary change because they love (lust) you. But unless they want to change for themselves, they will revert back to old ways (just give them time). Also, it usually gets thrown up during fights and gets held against the other person(s). It is always best to not force someone to change. Either accept the issue (and never bring it back up) or end the relationship.
    Making a temporary change is the one that will annoy the other person, they can easily use that when a fight occurs. "I already told you about this **** why are you doing it again?" If she cant change then the guy have to accept her fault...in that case he have to change his attitude toward her faults. For a problem to be resolved, its only either gonna be the girl or the guy that need to change for it to be enough to be all good again. Who needs to change is based on the nature of the problems or how important it is to the girl or the guy...this just need to be talked about until everyone agrees.

    For example I dont like smoking, but the girl Im with smokes. I can tell her to stop smoking, but it doesnt mean I can make her. If she loves me, she will stop. Dont think that Im taking control of her, my request is not just for me but its for the benefits of both of us. I asked her to stop because I love her, I dont go around telling everyone to stop smoking. Sure, I shouldnt have started the relationship at the first place knowing that she smokes. Knowing that shes one of the best girls around Im not just gonna walk away because of her fault, Ill stick around as much as I can until we decided that she cant be changed for good. To within reason any faults can be fixed if she knows whats good for both of us. True, I could just live with it the way she is, let her smoke, let her drinks, let her take drugs, get into prostitution and go down hill taking our childrens with her...thats a situation that I will never let it happen. She had the opportunity to change, she didnt, she firmly believe in "you cant change me" bull****. In that case she dont belong to a decent guy, she belong to a guy that dont give a **** about her.

    I have change for my girl permanently, she always wanted me to keep her informed where I am or what I do whenever I go far. I can understand her concern and I dont see it as being possesive or anything like that. In reality I dont have to keep in touch with her but if thats what gonna make our relationship better then why not just give what she want from me. There be a time that I simply cant keep in touch with her, but Ill try to find a way and do whatever I can. Her knowing that I tried for her its good enough to keep her happy, but I cant keep failing or making an excuse that I forgot...then that be neglecting and being careless now. Yes I have change permanently for her and its not because shes being controlling, I realised her request is good for our relationship. She went on diet cause I told her shes gone a little bit fat over xmas, at 50kg she want to drop down to 45kg for me. I didnt force her, she knows I dont want her to be fat and so made that little effort to make the relationship better for us, isnt that sweet If she refuse then I just gonna have to accept it, 50kg is no big deal. The fact that she tried and show that shes willing to change for me is a sign of making the love stronger.

    As for flirting on line and not taking care of the partner and expect them to accept it is bull****. Look at this situation...there be a time where I may need to do work overtime and may not have as much time for her no more. Im doing work overtime for a reason, maybe we really needed some extra money to get by. She got to understand that Im doing all this for both of us and got to put up with me not being with her all the time, it is life and we have to get through it sometimes. But neglecting her because I felt like flirting is completely unneccessary, its a sure way to drive her away. I got to change permanently and cant expect her to put up with my ****.

    Yes some can change permanently, I have seen it so many times, and they feel much happier now. It make take a while but it surely can be done. Trust me, a change must be permanent for the relationship to work good. No one is perfect and its not easy to find someone that will accept every fault you throw at them. Unfortunately some have to get through a divorce before they even realised they need to change for the better.


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    Quote Originally Posted by LagunaICE
    **** her out. you do not have to share her **** with anybody, even not virtually.
    Some guys are too forgiving, no wonder they get step on all over

    If she want to be a **** girl then she will stay as a **** girl.

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    shut it twat face!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scouse Monkey
    shut it twat face!
    Shut up and go and chew your GF used tampon

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