What would you do if your girlfriend.....

**EsKALad** · 01-18-2006, 02:04 AM

ok guys took care of it everything is good. and were still together. thanks for all your input guys. mods can close this thread if you like.

**Gearhead61** · 01-18-2006, 02:13 AM

Personally I think it's a judgement call on your part. If you've told her (in a firm, but respectful way I hope) that you don't like the way she flirts with this guy, and she doesn't care, well I think you know what the deal is. If she wants to stay with you and truly cares about you she shouldnt have any problem making her friendship with this guy seem more innocent.

That is, if she really is getting all flirty with him. Take a step back and see if you're just getting a little jealous. It happens to the best of us man. I know what you're saying about myspace though... lots of whores out there on myspace.

**84RegalRider** · 01-18-2006, 02:17 AM

Ok for one. Why are you on his ***??? Your girl is the one causing the problems.
If it isnt going to be him, it will be someone else...

But you really want my best advice....

Keylogger

**rev2** · 01-18-2006, 02:20 AM

Originally Posted by 84RegalRider

Keylogger

**jjh221** · 01-18-2006, 02:28 AM

yea keylogger would be good.

Its not the guys fault its hers.

We will always be here for you but we cant tickle you like she can. If it were me id tell the ***** shes fired. Go out and get ya a new one. Damn sluts

**EsKALad** · 01-18-2006, 02:33 AM

whats keylogger? and how do i get it on her computer?

**jjh221** · 01-18-2006, 02:37 AM

They log all activity and key strokes. Well depends on what you get. Ive never used one but here is a site.
http://www.canadiancontent.net/tech/...ds/Keyloggers/
http://www.keyloggers.com/

**84RegalRider** · 01-18-2006, 02:39 AM

Records every key pressed on the comp...
and i would stay give it to her good one night. And while she is recovering just install it and then grab the file in a couple of days.

**ODYSSEY** · 01-18-2006, 02:45 AM

Do not mean to sound rude but, I see two options:

A) Put up with it and realize that it is what it is.
B) Break up, because she will never change.

It all depends on how much of an issue it is for you, and if you are willing to put up with it. Trying to change her will never work, just as if she tried to change something about you. Figure out if her being a flirt is a deal breaker or not. The fact that it is a recurring issue for you leads me to believe it is a deal breaker. Then again you could always just use her.

**ODYSSEY** · 01-18-2006, 02:47 AM

Also we are talking about some major trust issues too. Seems you might not trust her. Using a keylogger would definitely prove that. Without trust any relationship is doomed.