Thread: Does this sound gay?

I don't see anything wrong with it. There are lot's of girls out there that are fun to hang out with.

Originally Posted by Emo

Ok.. need some opinions on this because I am starting to look at the situation from a different point of view...

I'm a guy (if you didn't know) and well.. these 3 girls for the past month and half maybe have become really close to me. Close to the point where if they do something, they call me.. 3-4 times a week they are at my house chilling.. movies, parties, you name it.. I'm with them..

So now.. how does this look if I'm not actually with any of them and they have boyfriends? (Their boyfriends don't mind me being with them so that's not the problem..)

At my school a while back there were these girls that always used to chill with this gay guy and I always thought it was funny.. and now, I kinda see my self of being that guy (except I'm nowhere near gay)

So what should I do? Should I keep this up? I mean yeah they're fun to be around, but like one of my friend says, "Unless you're ******* them, why are you with them?" so that's kinda true..

-Emo

Not Gay, just a pussy.

The truth is, YOU WANT TO BE WITH THEM. You just try and make it sound good to yourself by saying you have a good time to chillin. BS.

So, here is the deal, either slowly extract yourself from the situation, so that you aren't their ***** any more, break it off totally, or start hittin that ****.

I was in a similar situation with these 2 chicks. Both with BFs, and they were treating me like thier *****, complaining about stuff to me, chillin with me. After a couple of months of that (and I admit I shouldn't have waited that long, either **** or get off the pot is my new motto) I started little unavailable, and telling them that I felt like a *****, and that there was no point to chill unless we was knocking boots, and guess what, I started hitting both of them

Michael

Bone them each once and it'll be koo... ...... Na Im jus playin (not unless ya want to).....Its koo to have them as friends like it was said b4 there are some chics that are kool to kick it wit, ya know what I mean. As long as you dont pick up any of there female habits 0l33l and stay straight , its all good!

Just wondering, have u ever looked at any of these chics in a different way? or is one of them your ex or something?

Originally Posted by Wiredwrx

Not Gay, just a pussy.

The truth is, YOU WANT TO BE WITH THEM. You just try and make it sound good to yourself by saying you have a good time to chillin. BS.

So, here is the deal, either slowly extract yourself from the situation, so that you aren't their ***** any more, break it off totally, or start hittin that ****.

I was in a similar situation with these 2 chicks. Both with BFs, and they were treating me like thier *****, complaining about stuff to me, chillin with me. After a couple of months of that (and I admit I shouldn't have waited that long, either **** or get off the pot is my new motto) I started little unavailable, and telling them that I felt like a *****, and that there was no point to chill unless we was knocking boots, and guess what, I started hitting both of them

Michael

Thats they way to ******* do it!

Originally Posted by Wiredwrx

Not Gay, just a pussy.

The truth is, YOU WANT TO BE WITH THEM. You just try and make it sound good to yourself by saying you have a good time to chillin. BS.

So, here is the deal, either slowly extract yourself from the situation, so that you aren't their ***** any more, break it off totally, or start hittin that ****.

I was in a similar situation with these 2 chicks. Both with BFs, and they were treating me like thier *****, complaining about stuff to me, chillin with me. After a couple of months of that (and I admit I shouldn't have waited that long, either **** or get off the pot is my new motto) I started little unavailable, and telling them that I felt like a *****, and that there was no point to chill unless we was knocking boots, and guess what, I started hitting both of them

Michael

You are my new hero! lol

But yeah, I think you're right.. I'ma have to do something about it cuz I do feel like what you said "their *****" cuz they run to me for every little thing. Crying that their bf's are assholes and few hours later who are they ****in? THE ASSHOLES!!! that's some **** I dont understand but whatever..

Originally Posted by BIzFlawless

Just wondering, have u ever looked at any of these chics in a different way? or is one of them your ex or something?

Of course I have.. out of the 3, I'd only wanna be with 2 of them but I'd **** any of the 3... haha and no.. none of them are my ex's... if they were I'm sure there would be a way to get a 4 some started lol

-Emo

Originally Posted by Emo

But yeah, I think you're right.. I'ma have to do something about it cuz I do feel like what you said "their *****" cuz they run to me for every little thing. Crying that their bf's are assholes and few hours later who are they ****in? THE ASSHOLES!!! that's some **** I dont understand but whatever..

-Emo

Yeap, sounds awefully familiar. Trust me, you have to be a little ******* also to get some. It will work.

ANd of course, listen to Tom at www.971freefm.com from 3-7pm Pacific time, every day. Especially Thursday evenings.

Check out his website at www.blowmeuptom.com He showed me the light. While I don't agree with everything he says, most of his ideas on the way that men and woman interact is right on.

Michael

Originally Posted by Emo

But yeah, I think you're right.. I'ma have to do something about it cuz I do feel like what you said "their *****" cuz they run to me for every little thing. Crying that their bf's are assholes and few hours later who are they ****in? THE ASSHOLES!!!

When that happens, confort them, and then tell them there's a price for your services, and them tell them to get on their knees....

Peace,

Rafster

Originally Posted by Rafster

When that happens, confort them, and then tell them there's a price for your services, and them tell them to get on their knees....

Peace,

Rafster

haha.. thanks for the input.. This is why I asked this question here.. I know I will get some good answers!

and Wiredwrx, thanks for the links.. I'll get started on being more of an ******* lol


-Emo