Greatest Day

**DarquePervert** · 07-05-2006, 11:10 AM

Originally Posted by barqs

It takes two to ruin a marriage...

Au contraire. It only takes one to ruin a marriage. It takes one to dissolve a marriage. It takes two to make the dissolution amicable and as painless as possible.
I know because I've ruined one marriage all by myself... I'm not proud of that, but it's fact. I've also had one that dissolved and I'm still friends with that ex-wife and her new husband.
(Note to the yonger set: ex-wives are not something I recommend accumilating!)

I agree that it sounds like you need professional help. The fact that you're willing to come to a public forum and air your grievances indicates that in spades. If ODY wanted to contact you and work things out or be amicable or whatever, he would do that. If he chooses not to, then you need to put on your big girl panties and get on with life.

Welcome to adulthood.

**P3rv3rt B3ar** · 07-05-2006, 11:49 AM

Oh boy... We have our own mp3soap here

... hmmm what next? mayby Rafster turns out to be my ex

**Rafster** · 07-05-2006, 12:31 PM

Originally Posted by P3rv3rt B3ar

Oh boy... We have our own mp3soap here

... hmmm what next? mayby Rafster turns out to be my ex

HAHAHAHA!!!

Peace,

Rafster

**3onDubs** · 07-05-2006, 12:34 PM

This is weird....wow...ok, i was confused for the past ten minutes, but i think i finally have it sorted out...

...Barqs is Ody's ex. Barqs created a username a few months ago on here to stalk Ody. After a couple months of stalking, Barqs reveals her secret identity in a desperate plea to get Ody back. Ody rejects her, thereby flushing two months of hard-stalking-work down the toilet. The End.

...does that sound right?

**Rafster** · 07-05-2006, 12:38 PM

Originally Posted by 3onDubs

This is weird....wow...ok, i was confused for the past ten minutes, but i think i finally have it sorted out...

...Barqs is Ody's ex. Barqs created a username a few months ago on here to stalk Ody. After a couple months of stalking, Barqs reveals her secret identity in a desperate plea to get Ody back. Ody rejects her, thereby flushing two months of hard-stalking-work down the toilet. The End.

...does that sound right?

Kinda make's her seem even nuttier, doesn't it....?

Peace,

Rafster

**Motoko** · 07-05-2006, 01:12 PM

aw man i always wish i had a stalker, makes life fun i guess

**edrex** · 07-05-2006, 03:00 PM

Originally Posted by Motoko

soooo.. pics?

Yeah, obviously she is single and desperate... but is she hot??

No offence meant to Ody, just having some fun...

ps: As a guy that did just about the same as you did (marry young, divorce at 24) I can honestly say that you should stick to your guns of ignoring her attempts for closure. She probably just got out of a relationship and now is in the "call your ex's to see what went wrong, but really just because you are so emotional and crazy you think it may be a good idea to see if it could work out" phase. She had her chance, doesn't matter whose "fault" it is that the marriage didn't work, it just didn't. Now you can move on and find someone who you really will spend the rest of your life with.

**tj!2k4** · 07-05-2006, 04:20 PM

In the words of

Originally Posted by Ice Cube

Never go down the same road twice
Advice from the big homie Ice Cube
Hmm, girl you better get away from here
I don't want that **** no more
Na,na ahem, and don't be callin' at my mama' house neither
I'm through wit' you. I'm through wit' you
I done got smarter. I done got smarter

**jjh221** · 07-05-2006, 04:23 PM

wasnt she the one with the contract?

**nadir_s** · 07-05-2006, 04:38 PM

you guys are kiddin me right?

barqs is some nerd **** who is just tryin to **** with odyssee and entertain the rest of us ... so sad you ppl are actually instigating & supporting this.