machine, I let it sit for over an hour after the red dot appeared, saw some internet activity, but it stopped pretty quickly. I realized later that it was done; but for some reason I was expecting the dot to turn green. I also (after some playing around with the DFX skin) realized that I had to completely exit the skin before the new database was recognized.
Ran the update on my other 2 CarPCs, no problem. Great work!!!