dude, I hear you man. I'm afraid I can't help you but I just wanted to mention that I have had little to no replies on freefone questions for about 2 weeks now.
I'm not sure if it's because not many people use it (since you have to have a good phone to do it, multi bluetooth channel) or what, but I can't even get response from the guy who made it. (but i'm very appreciative that he made it in the first place, it's great)
maybe I should contribute to him and others who made RR, but anyways you kinda have to play with it yourself for now.
that's how i fixed my first problem. My first problem was that the iphone skin was missing the fonecall.jpg file so my screen was all wrong, took me a while to realize this file was missing. (it was the only file missing)
but it works now. but my new problem is freefone does not display one or more of my contacts. that's really strange because my phone is linking perfectly with my pc and rr every time. just missing an entry or more.
anyways, I was just letting you know that this is what they meant when they said "rr is not for the faint of heart" .. LOL I guess that's what they meant.
good luck man