To start Road Runner, you have either add it to the registry to start, or go the easy way, and just make s shortcut to RR and add it to the start menu, startup folder.
As for the phone, can't help you there. It is one of the most difficult things to set up in Road Runner, as there are so many types of phones, and everyone is unique in the way that it gets set up, blue tooth drivers, com ports and so forth.
I gave up on using my phone with the computer a few years ago, and went and purchased a Parrot hands free setup, and have never once looked back. Its rock solid, press a button on the dash to answer, or hold it for once second to voice dial.