1. Yes...I purchased Phoco and have the license key. NO JOKE!
2. i created a shortcut - rt click on desktop/choose new/shortcut/ click browse to go to phoco directory "C:\Program Files\PhoneControl.NET\PhoneCtl.NET.exe" and added -remotenodesign
3. I have 'server' as the name
4. The phoco icon appears in system try (like I stated before)
6. I chosed that option (unchecked and rechecked it to be sure)