I still have the E36.
And your bezel is still in there, working fine. Now with a Linitx 7" as opposed to the Lilliput that was originally in there.
I would love to help you out, but I don't really want to take the current screen out.
I find taking screens out for no reason (ie they aren't broken or need adjusting) tends to cause something to go wrong with them.
Also it's a long way for you to ship it and the costs incurred both sides wouldn't make it practical.
How's the E9x ones coming along? Might be in the market for one of them if I end up getting the E93 335i instead of the E46 M3.