Alright, well I made myself a fix for this, figured i would share it just in case someone else wants it..
Basically i just made a little program that, when ran, will click the mouse twice in the area of the screen where the "yes" button is for the testmode confirmation dialog on resume from hibernation. This ones i made only works with 800x600 and 800x480 screen resolution.. i could easily make it work with others.
To make it work you need 2 things.
1. My Program
-----> 800x600
http://www.minitruckinguy.com/testmodebypass.exe
-----> 800x480
http://www.minitruckinguy.com/testmodebypass800x480.exe
2. Hibernate Trigger
http://www.rpi.edu/~desimn/suspendtrigger/
Just use hibernate trigger to run my .exe program each time the computer resumes and all should work out well. At least it does for me!

Although, it did take a little playing with to get hibernatetrigger to work right for me.
note: If they fix the bug where it requires us to click once, i will modify the program so it only clicks once instead of twice, that way we can still use it :-)
(BTW: I assume no responsibility for how you use this information / program or the outcome. Use at your own risk!)
- Mike