Alright!... I finally figured out that the lavel in the bottom of the menu ski had to be associated with the icon/png. I changed it to the same as "Sp Dialer" in the menu skin and we are golden. THANKS!
Another cool feature for the SP Dialer, if it were some how incorporated into a single button Connect/Disconnect, the program plays a wav of your choice for for acknowledgment. In my case a lady says "Connected", for "" and then "Goodbye" for disc. So you would only have to have this program in the tray and not even in the skin.