800 watts rms?
first, 10awg isnt the best guage of wire you should be using. I suggest
at least 8awg for that kinda power.
2nd, sounds like you're expecting more power out of the amp then it can make & give. turn them gains down
3rd, your lights are either dimming from not enough power or an electrical strain from the low impedance.
if its not enough power try doing the big3 then replace battery, then the alty.
I really want to identify the "real" problem at hand.
Your stereo system isnt satisfying you enough. So the problem is you dont have a loud enough stereo.
My suggestion would be to step your game up and save a bit for some better equipment & switch to a ported box(if you have the space).
Why go ported? its all about
efficiency
oh if you do get more powerful equipment(amps) then you'll probably need to do some electrical updates. batteries, alty & and wires.