THANKS FOR YOUR REPLY. I WILL WRITE IN CAPS TO ANSWER YOU QUESTIONS.
Are you sure the mute-lead of the parrot is connected to the right pin of the HU?
YES. ALSO ABOVE IS A LINK TO OUR CARS WIRE DIAGRAM.
The mute is pulled down to ground if the parrot wants to mute the radio.
I AM A LITTLE CONFUSE HERE, BUT THESE ARE THE VOLTAGE READS I MADE.
THE MK6000 (YELLOW MUTE CABLE) READS 0 VOLTS WHILE NOT TRANSMITING AND AROUND 12 VOLTS WHILE IN USE.
THE SYMPHONY II RADIO READS 5 VOLTS WHILE NOT IN PHONE MODE.
WHEN THE CAR IS ON THE PARROT MUTES THE RADIO FINE.
WHEN THE CAR IS OFF THE RADIO GOES/STAYS IN PHONE MODE.
The red wire with fuse needs to be the permanent power, the orange one switched.
RED WAS CONNECTED TO POSITIVE IN RADIO (WHICH READ 12 VOLTS ALWAYS).
ORANGE I TRY THE FUSE BOX AND THE PIN NEXT TO COM.
ALSO I TRY SWITCHING CABLE CONNECTIONS FOR ORANGE-RED
Also check if the black wire gets good ground, if not the unit can search ground through other wires and connected devices.
BLACK WAS CONNECTED TO THE CAR GROUND. I RUN A CABLE ALL THE WAY THROUGH THE CONSOLE. (I DON'T LIKE JUST GETTING A SCREW).
Do I understand correctly that the sound over the speakers -problem has been solved?
AFTER I FOUND THIS, I HAVEN'T GO FOR THE SOUND STEP. BUT ACCORDING TO AUTO-TOYS IT SHOULD WORK (STEREO WIRE OUT, TO RCA CONVERTER, HI-LO, AUX CONNECTION)
Perhaps a small relay switched bij the parrots mutecable and connecting ground to the mute-pin of the HU can solve your current problem.
WHAT IS A BIJ? I AM STARTING TO LEARN ABOUT RELAYS. ANY GOOD LINK? I UNDERSTAND THE BASIC IDEA, BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I NEED.
(coil of relay one side to power 12 V, the other side to the mute cable of the parrot; The connections of the switch one to ground, the other to the mute-pin of the HU)
I GUESS THIS IS RELATED TO THE RELAY; ALSO I TRY CONNECTING THE PARROT MUTE WIRE, RADIO MUTE PIN, AND ALARM GROUND TOGETHER. MY HOPE WAS THE ALARM GROUND WILL BE STRONGER AND THE 5 VOLTS FROM THE MUT WONT RUN TO THE PARROT, BUT SEEMS I WAS MISTAKEN.
If nothing else works, you can try (first check at the Audi-servicepoint if it won't hurt the HU) to use a pull-up resistor. This is a relative high-ohm resistor you connect between 12V powerline and the mute, if the mute is not switched by the parrot, there will be a 12 volt signal to the mute lead, making sure the HU does not think there is a call in process.