I found the ford paint by checking out
www.f150online.com forums. When I asked the first dealer the jerk told me that they don't make it anymore because he was to freaking lazy to look up the part code. 3 months and several generic paint tries later I called another dealer on a whim. He was nice enough to look it up and tell me that even though he did not have any, he pointed me to the other local dealers that did.
In my case the paint did not require a clear coat, however, this time I may use rocker panel spray to get the right texture.
John