nice. i <3 suburbans.
my 85 suburban has rails that run across the car's roof under the headliner, i think about 18" apart at a guess. there's plenty of strength in them - believe it or not my single 10" sub in a sealed box is hanging from the roof (!!!) and it doesn't move a mil. i would suggest taking your headliner down carefully (just the front part) and checking out where they are. if you're careful you can weld to them to get a bracket where you need it, but watch the heat rising and making your exterior paint on the roof blister!
whether it'll be viewable in daylight, i have no idea. i expect it being up so high, it probably will be shaded no matter where the sun is, i expect you to have problems if someone's following you at night though, but that mightn't be an issue either.
with regards the power, i honestly don't really get what you are wanting to do. i think what you're saying is you want it to still be powered from the truck, but initiate a shutdown when the truck is shut down? if so, check out this link:
http://www.mp3car.com/vbulletin/show...3&postcount=21
you probably don't need all of it, just the diodes, the relay, and the serial port connection. hope that helps.