well, a relay i guess. ummm, a relay with software?
eg, 12v from rear illumination (reverse lamp) turns on relay, closes a switch, turning the camera on.
software determines when camera is turned on, and cuts to cam view when it is on
that is easy, you just gotta get someone to wrie the software
on that note, you could have a kinda double circuit. what I said above, except the relay is a SPDT relay, closing a switch turning the cam on, and shorting 2 pins on the comp/LPTI port. the shorting of the 2 pins would launch your rearview app, or would act at a 'hotkeyy press' for whatever you want. speak to weekendowel, i know he can do software like that.