Well, all I can say is that: 1. It was deeply frustrating for me, I've lost lots of time and some money; 2. If I had any success, I'd have edited the first post, so I'm not sure why you're so disappointed. At least you do not have to follow the exact steps I did, right?
With that said, you may want to check out how this discussion pans out:
http://www.mp3car.com/vbulletin/1275832-post5.html
So I'm too waiting on Kalt's progress.
Cheers,
RH.