just called xenarc - said that it was probably my control board and i could send it in w/ a check for $115 and get it fixed. i might end up driving over there being that it's kinda attached to my double din dash insert.
said that they used to have a problem similar to this in which the F1 fuse would blow - looks like i get to go find a multimeter for a little fun
anyone have any other ideas of what it could be? or is there a cheaper way to fix this?