Hello everyone, this is my first foray into doing pretty much anything to my car save using the cig lighter and aux port

I've been reading the forums virtually non-stop the past two weeks in order to alleviate some of my ignorance on this subject.
I have computer hardware and programming experience, my weakness is car audio and wiring so I'm going to spout my plans here and graciously request input and guidance to assist in improving upon the knowledge I have already gleaned from the insane amount of information on this site The vehicle I am using is a 2008 Mazda 3i.
Since I'm new to this, please correct any incorrect terminology or methodologies I may be using.
Hardware List:
- Intel BLKD945GCLF2 Mini-ITX Atom Mobo
- 2GB of Some Brand of RAM
- M2-ATX Power Supply
- WD Scorpio 120GB 5400 RPM SATA Notebook Drive
- 7" Xenarc 700TSV
- BU-353 GPS
- Some kind of optical drive
- OBDPro Scanner (already have from an earlier project)
My main aversion to this project is working with the electrical system. I'm sure many people have the same feeling when they've never done something like this before. I figure I need to do it, so I'll learn how.
What I've gathered is I'll need an 8 gauge wire connected to the positive terminal of the battery with a 15A inline fuse that is fed into the passenger compartment, through the firewall (remains to be seen how easy this is) and into the M2-ATX. This is probably the most intimidating portion of the project for myself.
In
this photo: do I use a terminal ring, crimp my 8g wire into it and attach the loop onto the same bolt as the lead red wire in that photo? I'm just worried I'll blow something up or, worse, electrocute myself. I also take it, before I do anything, disconnect the negative to prevent any shorts?
After that, I think the rest is a much more comfortable endeavor for myself. I'm going to take a shot at meshing together the Xenarc bezel and a double DIN kit.
By removing the stock HU, I have seen that I will lose my Temp/Clock LCD. I assume my steering controls will go as well? Is a better option to retain the innards of the head unit and plug the mac mini into the auxiliary port, thereby retaining my Radio and CD Player as well as LCD and steering controls?
Hopefully someone can lend me some advice and tell me if I know what the hell I'm doing

Thanks!
*edited with new hardware list*