you forget physical pain after a while. Psychological wounds can last a life time.
Example: children of drunk looser parents grow up carrying deep emotional scars that just do not go away. Some say grow up, move on, blah blah blah. But you never forget what it felt like being chosen second over a bar stool. Even worse is when one of these children is an asthmatic (from birth) and the said looser drunk parents also smoke like chimneys. Wouldn't even go outside to lightup. Rather choke out their own flesh and blood than be inconvenienced over a cigarette.
wtf? ya, a straight up ghetto style *** whoopin hurts much less.