1. 12 AWG minumum
Wire
2.
M3 ATX_____________________15A
Amplifier_________________150W
extra total_______________156W
extra amps_________________10Amps
headlights high beam_______65W
headlights low beam________45W
fog lights_________________35W
wiper motor max____________40W
HVAC blower max___________400W
seat heater x2____________110W
heated mirrors_____________25W
rear window defroster_____200W
factory stereo amp________200W
other loads(ign, ltg, etc)100W
stock max total__________1220w
current(worst case max)___101Amps
Total amps MAX____________115Amps
Alt capacity_______________90Amps
Battery Drain______________25Amps
continued operation like this will drain the battery. Keep in mind these are estimated maximum values. Even my estimated stock loads exceed the alternator.

probably my error.
Your stock alternator is around 90 amps
these are just estimate values, you could look up your own and do similar calcs and see for yourself
Also you could run all of these things and get a clamp-on DC ammeter and read the alt current and batt current (see if your battery is charging or discharging to add or subtact battery current to/from alt current).
You could also read each load's fuse, divide that value by ~125% and add those up.
hope this helps.