I think i seem to be getting what is the problem here...
When I use the special car adapter i bought for my laptop the audio is fine only the screen has noise.
on my laptop normal power supply it states 20v 6a which means 120 watts
the car adapter I bought is exactly 120 watts. So probally what is happening here is that my laptop surges the maximum power of this adapter which is probally just enough to get it going but too weak to provide a good signal on my video out.. because when i use a short video cable its fine only when i use a longer one it start to get a noisy screen. So probally the video out signal is too weak to reach all the way to my lcd screen... The cable itself is fine as when I use the 12v to 230v convertor the video is fine only the horrible noise kicks in on my audio probally caused by the modified sine wave (i checked the convertor its not pure sine wave

) So I probally should go for an car adapter which could go up to 150 watts so I have some spare watts left then probally its solved i will look one up these days ill let u guys know how its going...