Fosgate pretty much summed it up

My boot time is less than 12 seconds untill I can start selecting what I want to hear. MPXF will support LCD displays as well as IR control. I was just after a MP3 player in my car and when I used winamp with my laptop I ran into many problems: Improper shutdowns, boot delays, lockups, proper shudown delays, "roving mouse" (control loss), etc.
With my dos player I can switch on the inverter and fire the whole thing up, 12 sec boot, if the system crashes it loops back and restarts, when I want to shutdown, I exit the software and hit the power switch off.. maybe 3 seconds to shudown. Add to that a search able database you can run with the 10 key to search for your fav song, artist, or album and you have a pretty powerful imbedded system.
Oh and for the record I changed the values
of the delayfactor and refresh delay to 4 and the problems seemd solved?? Really weird, I think my system was just having a bad hair day