I basically had the same idea to upgrade the antenna so i searched and found your bright idea (Leslie). Anyways the antenna i baught from compusa the brand is also compusa. 6dbi Antenna. Here some pics. Oh yea and this is for home network use on the PC.
the top of the solder (still left the gold connector on, i was told it would conduct better than the wire would)
the bottom
and the difference of the "width" of my chip and leslie's
The Antenna
Basically the unfinished product
Only problem is it doesnt recognize no networks not even the one i connected with when i had the stock antenna.
Possible problems
1. Connection of antenna might not be one with chip.
2. Antenna to powerful for chip. (might need an a small amplifier for antenna.)
3. Solder could be bad.

SOMEONE, ANYONE, HELP....ADVICE !