Yes, working perfectly! and sorry... welcome to the forums! I have to say, that has to be the smoothest riding jeep on planet earth, -or- a great job using a video stabilizer plugin
I really do not know anything about Mac's specifically, But some of it is universal:
You should be able to set the standby options to shut off automatically though. Just set the laptop to go into standby mode when the battery drops to say 95%. This way when you get out of the Jeep, power to the laptop is cut, and it will remain on the battery until the battery drops to that level, and then go into standby.
I'm not sure about Mac's but on a PC you can also set the computer to go into hibernate at say 20%. This way, you shut the car off, power to the laptop is cut from the power supply. It then waits till the power in the laptop battery drops to 95% and then goes into standby. When the battery gets to 20% it will hibernate to prevent the battery from going completely dead, and losing any information.
As for resuming, it's a bit trickier. Most people solder wires to the laptop's power button. These can be hooked to a relay and a small circuit, so when you start the car, it will activate the relay for a 1/4 of a second or so, thus "pressing" the power button for you.
In the rare case, you may have a feature in your bios to resume with power. Meaning the laptop will wake up when power is sensed from the laptop power supply.
Have a search here in the forums for keywords like "laptop power" and the likes, there are tons of threads and good info on all of this stuff.