Finally, the DVI-Plug arrived and I have made some progress with my project:
The custom Power Plug is finally finished inside the mac:
Now the Back of the mac mini with all the plugs in place (I will add a second USB minihub for the iPod but that's minor for now)
With a xeroxed image of the mac mini (thanks to bugbyte's project -
link) I started to work on the plexiglass back plane:

With the image directly taped to the plexiglass it was easy to drill the starting holes in the plexiglass.

After about 3 hours of using the drill, various files and sandpaper (which I have VERY seldomly used before, but my father has a great workshop with lots and lots of tools laying around ready for use) I got all the holes to a perfect fit (even the custom power plug connector, which proved to be the biggest pain to do...)
Luckily I only had to do 4 holes: DVI, USB, Power and the Fan outlet, I'm not very used to this kind of work
The other thing I got done this weekend was the stand for my xenarc:
It's not as "factory-looking" as I had in mind in the beginning, but you can't have everything: I rather go with a fully removable carputer that I can take out of the car anytime easily than have a great in-dash screen...
To get the screen mounted in the heater-outlet, I cut off quite some material from the factory stand that came with the screen, then I needed some hole to run the cables into the console (also to run the power and serial-cables of my Garmin StreetPilot GPS unit)
This is another time that my Swiss Army Knife proved a very useful tool, the plastic of the airduct is very soft and can be cut with the pocket knife.
The result looks like this:
...and with the screen in place:
Sidenote:
DO NOT DRIVE AROUND WITH THE WARNING FLASHING LIGHTS SWITCH (what's the word for this thing anyway - it's the one with the red triangle icon in the middle of the console, see image above)
TAKEN OUT ==> YOUR INDICATOR LIGHTS WILL CEASE TO WORK!!! 
This was kind of a shock for me (and kinda unlogical), I especially felt uneasy driving around in the city by night.