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Now for real bluetooth software (not freefone), the technologies you are talking about are PBAP for phonebook transfer which does rely on the obex protocol but is usually not blocked even if obex is. Answer, send and hangup are done over the HFP which most phones support but not all will provide callerid over this connection (its optional in the HFP spec). If your talking about using your phone as a media player over bluetooth, the technology there is AVRCP (sink) and A2DP (source) which allow media player control and high quality audio streaming respectively.
Hopefully that clears some things up.
Alright so it's not so much the phone but the software (Freefone)? If that is the case, what software can I use that would support a Blackberry for computer phone control?
Your best bet would be asking them... AFAIK all of the phone app's roadrunner has are really just wrappers of the bluesoleil sdk. Bluesoleil really doesn't have great support for features other then HSP/HFP so you may need to just hang in there till something better comes along.
I do know of something better that is in the works but cannot provide any details or ETA at this time.